- The most obvious is the local joke. “Why do foreigners date
the ugly girls?” I’m not here to bust any balls, but there is a reason why
locals think this way. Once you spend time on the ground, you notice this as
well. There is a thing about shifting beauty preferences, like a bad hang-over
than you notice 6 months into the trip. By the time you realize you bedded attilla
the hun’s sister, everyone is laughing at you for being such as sucker, and you
have used up most of your social capital to bed the girls in the upper strata.
- This reason is not so obvious. The Philippines is very
strict in strata dating. This means dating is heavily based on the economic
strata. With females being hypergamous, you will see a lot more leeway in the
bottom strata as girls find to date upwards. The guys on the top on the other
hand have SO MANY options, but since access to money is VERY influenced by the
perception of people towards the stratas these men do not cross the line…
unlike the uninitiated foreigner.
- You have unresolved issues about sex, love, and
relationships. America is such an unbalanced place that the gender dynamic has
been twisted and contorted for the pursuit of ego and capital. It truly is sad
to see an American man waiting in the street corner LIKE A CRACK ADDICT waiting
for his pussy fix in ermita, and even sadder to see healthy YOUNG AMERICAN guys
who are using “game” to have an ego boost of notch-counts but generally looking
desperate in the high-end bars. When you
chase pussy of course it is going to open up. But the quality of pussy you open
up is a different aspect. Learn the society first gentleman, this ain’t first
- Pussy is plentiful. Imagine a pyramid.. well you know I’ll
just draw you pyramid (up there). This means there is a whole more to date from the bottom
that there is at the top. Why should you care if the girl has money or not? I
pondered the same question when I was a former a contributor at rooshv forum before
embarking to a trip to Colombia. There was a legendary poster by the name of MixX
(Colombian-American from Miami) who wrote the guide about Colombia and remarked that “I could really fck barrio
girls all day if I wanted to.. ” and I didn't understand it then. But when I went
to Colombia I was enlightened. Same thing in Manila.
- It’s all in your head. When you first go here you think you are the shit. This manifests in your thoughts and the way you move. You see someone looking at you then you believe it! You go and date some girls you meet online (fact: 95% of the girls in Filipina dating sites are similar to barrio girls or have something wrong with them thus excluding them from the local dating pool) and this attitude carries over. Never mind that you are blowing a shit load of cash for a fancy hotel or fancy expat restaurant when her local lover boy takes her out on fish-ball dates.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
“I was a God in The Philippines” – No You Weren’t Here’s Why.
The Philippines is a very stratified society. To be honest, I don’t doubt at all that you probably got laid like a champion during your week visit. But there really is something more going on that will escape your eye as westerner and that someone who has an insider knowledge of the culture can tell you.
I would like to end this by saying that even if the entire American nation of sex-starved males comes to Manila to hunt pussy, it will not even make a dent on my dating options. There are too many females here. As Manila heads towards “medellinifcation” (to become like Medellin in dating), there needs to be some sort of guide for this to at least show what cannot be seen by the western eye (insider access). American men deserve quality because they are high quality men. The problem really is that they do not understand the society. To them, pussy is just another pussy. It’s not. Especially in a third world society.
That guy (pic) is Andrew Zimmerman. 90% of expats look like him. I do not. I'm Asian-American. 165lbs fit and under 30 and I do not date bar-chicks. Did I just violate a universal rule or something? 3rdworld on "gopro" hero cam: http://youtube.com/user/3worldhero