Sunday, August 21, 2016

Why White women don't like Asian men - But there's Good News for Asian Guys!



Hello. If you've ever wondered why:

- You seldom see couples of Asian men and White women, and why such pairings are so rare.
- Asian men seem to be uncomfortable around white women (particularly American or Canadian but less so with European) as though they were an alien species which made them feel insecure about their masculinity.
- White women tend to shun and reject Asian men, treating them as though they were asexual and not worthy of dating consideration, as though they weren't even real men. Even if White women deny this, it's still true and obvious from their ACTIONS and selection of mates. And as we all know, actions speak louder than words.

Then let me explain why. There are simple logical explanations why Asian male/White female couples are generally rare, incompatible and fundamentally mismatched. (which all statistics on interracial relationships confirm) Allow me to elaborate.

Reason # 1:

You see, a White female is more masculine, rough and independent than a typical Asian female from Asia. They need a guy who is more masculine than them, or at least is taller and looks more masculine. A typical Asian guy looks way too meek and feminine to them. They are not masculine enough for them, nor sexually attractive to them either. Asian males look nothing like what her DNA-driven mating instinct looks for. This is why most White women treat Asian men as asexual and do not consider them for any type of romantic relationship.

On the other hand, a typical white female, especially an American white female of Anglo/Germanic/Scandinavian descent, is not feminine enough for an Asian male. NE Asian women in China and Japan, for example, are a thousand times more feminine than White women are, even those in Europe, in every way. There is no doubt about that. A modern white woman is more rough, thick-skinned and masculine, compared to a typical Asian female. Therefore, a typical super feminine Asian woman is no doubt more naturally suited for an Asian man, who is not as rugged and masculine looking as a White male is. This is why white women who go to NE Asian countries have a lot of trouble finding decent quality Asian men to date, and often complain about it on the internet.

Reason # 2:

Another reason why Asian men and White women are not naturally compatible:

White women are heavily into lookism. They care more about looks than Asian or Hispanic women do. Looks matter a lot to White women and they won't give a guy a chance unless they are "physically attracted to them" per their own words. White women generally prefer tall athletic White men. Even if they deny it, it still must be true because they always choose certain types of white guys that rate high in the looks department. 

However, most Asian men are not very attractive or good looking. That's why Asian women aren't as fixated on looks as White women are. If they were, most of them could not find an Asian male partner because most Asian guys aren't attractive. Therefore, this again is a mismatch, because White women want good looking guys and most Asian men are not good looking, and thus cannot meet the criteria that white women have for the looks they are attracted to. 

This is yet another major factor that makes Asian men and White women one of the least frequent pairings of couples, and why they have a lower success rate together in dating too. This seems to be true even in Europe, however it does seem that European White women are more open minded toward Asian men and aren't as racist toward them as American White women are, because frankly, European girls are more down to earth, mature and broad minded than their American counterparts are, and nowhere near as fake either.

Anyhow, these are the fundamental reasons why Asian males and White females are not naturally suited for each other and have a very low success rate in long-term relationships. It makes perfect logical sense, don't you think?

On the other hand, White male and Asian female couples are far more common, as we all know and see. They have a higher success rate, and are more naturally suited (as long as both are open minded about interracial relationships), because a masculine white male and a feminine female are a viable complementary match. However, I've noticed that the types of White males that get along best with Asian women are not the rugged, red neck or macho types, but the low key, mellow soft types with less testosterone, and are into Asian cultures. Many of these white guys seem to have "Asian souls and personalities", hence we call them "eggs" - white on the outside, yellow on the inside. lol. So even a White guy who is not too masculine is still well suited for an Asian female, as long as she is more feminine than he is of course.

What do you all think? Does this make sense? 

As you can see in the diagram below, Asian male/White female pairings have a much higher divorce rate than White male/Asian female pairings.



Also, this report by the Daily Mail shows that White men and Asian women are the highest in demand in Western countries.




Suggestions, Solutions and Good News for Asian Males:

Now if you're an Asian male, don't get too down just yet. There is Good News for you, if you're willing to look outside the box that is. More on that later though. First I want to admit that there are always exceptions to all this of course, just as there are with every general tendency or pattern. But these are the fundamental truths that explain why Asian male / White female pairings are less common and less compatible in general, then Asian female / White male pairings. 

Now, I am not saying it's impossible for Asian men and White women to have good relationships or stick together, just that it's low probability and does not usually last long. Therefore, if you are an Asian male with a fetish or preference for White females, I would say it's ok to go for it, as long as you: don't take it too seriously, expect a lot of rejection, and don't get your hopes too high. And of course, as long as you understand that this pursuit is a low probability endeavor that will not work for the majority of Asian men (though there are exceptions of course, which can be found if you look for them) and therefore is just for fun or to satisfy your curiosity. 

Granted of course, there is a subset minority of white women that have a fetish or preference for Asian men and/or an interest in Asian culture. Those are the types that are more likely to date Asian men. In addition, the mod/goth types of white girls, who like to dress in all black and are into witches and vampires, like the famous icon El Vira, also tend to like Asian men or are more open to them, in my experience. (I guess it's because since they like everything black, that they fancy the black hair of Asian men? lol) However, even if you date these subset types of white females, still the probability of long term success is low, so be prepared for that and don't take it too seriously or fall in love too deep.

As an Asian male myself, I can understand how alluring attractive white females are, especially when they seem unattainable and aren't naturally attracted to you. It's a challenge we dream of overcoming, especially if we have insecurity issues, because then we feel that acquiring a White partner will make us feel more accepted and successful in Western society, and thus will compensate for our feeling of inferiority or insecurity in a culture where White males are the ideal male standard.

However, once you start dating both White and Asian females, you will naturally appreciate Asian women and realize that they are better suited for you and complement you better, for they are super feminine and complement an Asian male naturally well, as nature and God intended or designed. That's been my experience. Asian women, especially Chinese, Japanese and Korean (NE Asian types) have a grace, elegance and femininity that White women can never have. This is why Hollywood movies almost never show the top Asian female models in their films and entertainment, because they would eclipse even the best of the best in white female models.

The GOOD NEWS for you as an Asian male is that in Asia, the majority of attractive women prefer ASIAN males, not white males. The white male preference of Asian females is only true in America and Europe, not in Asia. So if you go to an Asian country where there are still plenty of single females, such as China, Vietnam, Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, etc. you will do much better than most White males do, for YOU will be the MAIN preference of most of the Asian women there. In contrast, the white males in Asia will tend to date the "leftovers" in Asia, the women that Asian men don't want, either cause they are too old, unattractive, or have personality issues. So you will have better pickings in Asia than the white men do, assuming of course that you are a decent quality Asian male comparing yourself to an equal quality White male, all else being equal.

* Now ask yourself: Is it really so bad to give up White women for Asian women like these? :)

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In addition, the Asian females in Asia are also better for you because they are more down-to-earth, feminine and non-westernized. In other words, they aren't as corrupted or spoiled. They act more humble and modest, not arrogant like Americanized Asian girls do. In Asia, women are raised with traditional values, to care about others and prioritize the needs of their family, husband and children. They aren't raised to be selfish, narcissistic and egotistic like they would be in American culture. As we all know, humble modest girls are easier to get along with than spoiled arrogant girls. So the women in Asia make better wives, will treat you better, and have better values and character. And thus will complement you better. That's why Asian countries have much lower divorce rates than America does, not surprisingly.

* Below: Me and some Chinese girls I met in China while I was outside asking directions. They invited me to eat with them later. As you can see, girls in China are much more friendly, social and hospitable toward male strangers, as this would never happen in America.



So I would definitely recommend you go somewhere in Asia to date women. Find a job or start a business there if possible, so you can live long term and have a better prospect of finding a good quality partner than if you were just a tourist. If you don't know where to start, then visit several Asian countries to find out where you fit best, including your own native country where your parents or ancestors came. 

However, I wouldn't put too much stock in finding a girlfriend or partner in the wealthier first tier Asian countries though, such as Hong Kong, Taiwan, Singapore, Japan or Korea. The women in those nations tend to be spoiled, difficult and very picky. So unless you are the cream of the crop or you have a lot of social connections and networks in such countries, I wouldn't try to date women there. I mean you could try of course, and you may get lucky, but I wouldn't put much stock or hope in it. The women in such countries are well off, independent and have money. They don't even need men, so they will demand the cream of the crop or be very picky, because they can afford to be. What's more, they tend to be hyper closed when it comes to talking to strangers or meeting new guys. So they aren't even that social or open with new people, and that includes you too. That's my advice. Take it or leave it.

Now one final thing. If you are an Asian male still interested in White girls, what I would recommend is that you go date the White girls overseas, in Europe and Russia. Not in USA or Canada. That's because the white women in Europe and Russia tend to be a lot more down to earth and genuine, and are less racist toward Asian men, in my experience. So you will have a better time connecting with them and vibing with them. If nothing else you will at least make some nice new White female friends over there. 

Once you go to Europe, you will see that the white women there are NOT like the white women in America. They don't act as fake or immature, and aren't as paranoid or high strung or man hating, as American women are. So you will feel much more comfortable with the white females there, in European countries and Russia. In particular, focus on Eastern Europe for the women there are less spoiled and not into feminism as much.

However, even if you find a girlfriend in Europe or Russia, again like I said earlier, the chances of it lasting long term into marriage aren't that great. There is simply a rift between the natural instinct of White females and Asian males, one that makes them drift easily apart. Of course, there are successful marriages between Asian men and White women, they do exist no doubt, and examples can be found. But that doesn't mean that the majority of Asian men will succeed long term with white women. It only means a minority will. Though not impossible, it's simply not as achievable as dating within your own Asian race.

Now I'm not trying to discourage anybody here. Just giving the facts. Hope you understand where I'm coming from. Regardless, always remember to follow your heart. That's the most important thing.

Thanks for reading. To learn more about the benefits and freedoms of dating foreign women and living abroad. visit Happier Abroad and look through the content.

Discuss this topic in the HA forum here.


* Below are some girls I met in Eastern Europe and Russia. As you can see, they are way more warm, friendly, sociable and approachable than girls in America by far. And their faces are much more relaxed and genuine as well. Now do you see why I recommend these foreign areas for dating white girls? :)


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38 comments:

  1. I'm an Asian guy married to a white woman for several years now. I don't understand this "not compatible" business. Seems like Winston Wu has pretty low esteem himself, or is just too fat and ugly. Dating white women is easy, you just have to be more direct than you do with Asian women. You also need to be physically fit. You don't need to be 6 feet tall or look like a white dude. You just have to be comfortable in your own skin.

    Also, the divorce statistics you post aren't really accurate, they had an incredibly small sample size.

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    1. Your logic is flawed. I could say that just because I won a gold medal in the olympics, then everyone can too. Not true. I said there are exceptions to every rule. You may be an exception, but exceptions do not debunk a general rule or pattern. Any honest all american white woman who doesn't abide by political correctness will tell you the truth, that white women in the US do not like Asian men. It's true at least for 95 percent of them. Go to Match.com and you will see that 80 percent of white women profiles in the US prefer only white women, it's stated on their profile.

      I have dated a few white women in America before. But I've had thousands of rejections too. I am comfortable and direct of course. But when I approach a white american girl or ask them out, 99.99 percent of them will say "Sorry I have a boyfriend". I've heard that millions of times.

      So I have no problem being direct and comfortable with them. Ask any average asian guy to do the same. He will validate what I said. The truth is the truth.

      I am above average for an asian guy. White women have said so too. Most asian guys are ugly or nerdy or average. Sorry. Not many asian guys are hot.

      The divorce rates don't. Liberal media lies all the time. It's easy to cherry pick data or twist statistics. The liberal media also claims women are smarter than men, which is not true. Anyone can take any sample they want.

      But regardless of divorce rates, most asian men who go for white women will fail, not succeed.

      Come discuss this topic here:
      http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=12705

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    2. above average? you look like an oversized shit lol

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    3. from experience, seeing and hearing what the author is saying speaks true to my heart. i am an asian man. physically fit, in a good career. i married a white girl i met in college. she's a physician. we were married for 16 years almost 17. we dated for 8 years prior. we also have 2 kids. we recently got a divorce because she decided she didn't love me any more. now she's on match.com looking for white/caucasian only men to date. i thought we would last and that we could beat the odds. but even after 24 years it's still not true.

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  2. AMWF relationships actually have the lowest divorce rates in the US. It makes sense since they tend to be well-educated and have higher incomes. The study you quoted was very flawed in its tiny sample size for AMWF. See here for a much larger study: https://i.imgur.com/EoEbRAZ.png.

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    1. Whether that's true or not, the fact remains that 90+ percent of American white women do NOT like Asian guys in general, and would not date them. They will tell you this if they are honest. Even Hollywood does not show such couples because it's taboo and offends white women to see Asian males as romantic leads. Australia is more open minded though as they have cast Asian male romantic leads before, such as in the movie "The Man From Hong Kong" in the 1970's, where a Hong Kong Chinese detective scores two beautiful white women.

      Simply put, they are not naturally compatible for the logical reasons I gave in this article. Anyone can see that. It's obvious. Why argue against something so obvious?


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  3. Winston got some solid fundamentally valid points. He speaks to the general experience of most Asian guys. Ive had relationships w a few white girls / women and many times its like finding a needle in a haystack. America is all about race. Confidence isnt necessarily enough to close the deal with a person of another race. Anyone can be politically correct and say yeah thats all you need and be physically fit, blah blah blah, but the reality is that only a tiny handful of white female audience will actually be receptive to you by comparison if you chase the same number of Asian females. The really sad thing is that these so called "Asian women" are now not as motivated to want to be w Asian guys. The Conclusion is that in America, Asian guys needs to Increase their own dating expectations and chase many women of another race, whether they are interested or not.

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  4. Valid points. Your generalization is correct and is much inline on how many asian male feels if he would to approach a white female in the usa. However living in Europe for a year, i can tell you the white women there are much normal! More warm in general. They look asian guys as a person first before your race. They are not generally as robotic as most main stream white girls in the states. Much more dateable as a person of value in Many ways.

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    1. Yes I fully agree. The white girls in Europe are different. They are more down to earth, genuine, modest, open minded and social. Thus they are MUCH MUCH easier to connect with. They don't have that toxic vibe or bitchy personality that makes you uncomfortable like white girls in the US have. You can see this from my photos above. Thanks for your great truthful comment.

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    2. Yes I fully agree. The white girls in Europe are different. They are more down to earth, genuine, modest, open minded and social. Thus they are MUCH MUCH easier to connect with. They don't have that toxic vibe or bitchy personality that makes you uncomfortable like white girls in the US have. You can see this from my photos above. Thanks for your great truthful comment.

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    3. I would like to say it is not whole of Europe. Dutch white women are the same as American white and they hardly date any Asian guy. I agreed East Europe girls are the best because once I was asked by a Polish beautiful girl with blond hair blue eyed to go shopping with her in Amsterdam. I rejected because I hate to see my Dutch white brother looking with jealousy and anger.
      Anyway, I still prefer Asian girls.

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  5. You look ridiculous. Why white females don't date you is because you don't lift, don't take care of yourself, retain a shit haircut that your mom gave you.

    No, it is not worth it to give up. With those asian females in the pictures, you are just going to birth more emasculated weak piece of shit like you. No doubt your dad had made the same mistake. Pick the most unmasculine women in the world, birth a kid. Think he won.

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  6. It's worth noting that none of the girls in your pics are attractive. After all, most asian men would be considered ugly in europe and wouldn't be able to attract high quality women there. Also, asian men mixed with some white blood do very well with women in the US, and are even superior to most white men in US

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    1. Wrong!

      Hapa men are treated like full-Asian men by society, mostly got eliminated by women basically.

      https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/

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    2. Wrong!

      Hapa men are treated like full-Asian men by society, mostly got eliminated by women basically.

      https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/

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    3. Well, I think you're wrong. Some of the women in the pics he posted are attractive. Like that blonde one with the big eyes and the brunette with blue eyes. You think they're ugly? Okay then lol. You must have the highest standards.

      I'm a Eurasian female who finds half-Asian/half-White males to be the most attractive, followed by White males. But that doesn't mean 100% Asian guys are all ugly to me.

      With that said, I do find that most of the time in the 100% Asian guys that I find good-looking, they do possess Caucasian-ish features. Take Takeshi Kaneshiro for example, he's half-Japanese/half-Taiwanese, but has the chiseled face and swagger of a Caucasian man.

      In terms of looks and personality, I don't like Asian girly-boys (a.k.a. most Korean idols) or guys with the typical big, wide Asian head.

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    4. Well, I think you're wrong. Some of the women in the pics he posted are attractive. Like that blonde one with the big eyes and the brunette with blue eyes. You think they're ugly? Okay then lol. You must have the highest standards.

      I'm a Eurasian female who finds half-Asian/half-White males to be the most attractive, followed by White males. But that doesn't mean 100% Asian guys are all ugly to me.

      With that said, I do find that most of the time in the 100% Asian guys that I find good-looking, they do possess Caucasian-ish features. Take Takeshi Kaneshiro for example, he's half-Japanese/half-Taiwanese, but has the chiseled face and swagger of a Caucasian man.

      In terms of looks and personality, I don't like Asian girly-boys (a.k.a. most Korean idols) or guys with the typical big, wide Asian head.

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    5. Takeshi Kaneshiro has Plastic surgery. He tries hong kong but did not succeed. Then he moves to Japan and become famous. Having westernised feature does not make one attractive. It has to be harmony with the whole face. I knew a chinese girl who has all western feature (high nose and chin like a westerner) but she is not attractive and one girl who has oriental feature but perfect harmony with face. she is very cute and pretty

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  7. Hi
    I am a woman and was born on a Caribbean Island nation by the name of St.Croix in the Virgin Islands. I am a Cruzan. So do I consider myself American. NO!! Though I do have citizenship, by morals no I am in no way American. I was taught and told Asian men have a lot going for them as do many other races of men. My mom alway made comments don't get you a dumb bummy dude. Get someone smart, educated, and kind. I look as thought I can easily pass for an African from Africa or African American woman from America. All my life since middle school up until now I look like I could be this person's cousin. I have also seen pictures, I maybe truly related to a lot of people.The sad fact to say is Asian men just like many other men of other cultures and women alike are chasing people who could not be bothered by dating them. I am not saying date exclusively your own race at all because if I did I would have kids now and having baby daddy issues. Im gladly a single college student working on a criminal justice degree in NY. No children but I have to say we all have to stop chasing this idea of ideal race and to be more western. Being western has it's advantages but their are many things that truly suck like all the processed or genetically modified food. Can I get a real orange for once in my life like back in the VI. NO!! Their all mutated and don't ship from there. The government is always experimenting some new drug or virus on it's own people. Hello if you have depression take a pill. Really? Then after a few months you get side effect then a new pill to cure your side effect that also has more side effects. Damn lovely really just damn lovely. Thirdly Zika a virus created by the American government is now apparently paralyzing adults who get bitten by the mosquitoes, who have the virus long term. Point is being western blows. Hell sometimes all I wanna do is go back but sadly where I am from their barely any jobs, and tourism has been on a decline despite how beautiful the island and the people are. People on St.Croix are mutts really not an insult but my grandad is from Spain, my grandma Native American Taino. Did a genetical exam and I am Irish, Italian, Greek, British, and African, Spanish. When your home gets taken over by 9 countries before your born you become mixed like many caribbean people. I look as mixed as everyone else on the island no matter how dark or light their skin is. We have Asians too but I am definitely sadly not Asian as far as the test goes. Hoping that link Native Americans from Serbia works out though would be cool. Whole ice bridge theory. Sorry to go off topic but back. I just want a nice guy who is kind, good hearted, loves me, loves our kids if we have a chance to create any, and loves what he does pursue his career. I am at the point nobody is being friendzoned. Any body can have a date whether it's coffee or dinner with me. No sex though gotta wait a year and a half to two years. Made the first official bf wait a year and a half not doing any sooner. I am sick of the spoiled men and women in America too. I am a bisexual and shall continue to be honest to you as I write this. It would be nice to go out on a date and not suddenly get stand up by a guy who is suddenly chasing down a girl with her legs open who he will see in 20 mins after she texts his phone. At the same time I am tired of being friendzoned by guys of other races looking for the same thing I am looking for. Yet the same guys who want the same thing I am looking for are so worried about dating only a certain race, or their own race they are missing the pot of gold in his class sitting next to him or at the library. Or maybe it's his lack of confidence, the fact he is chasing the white girl, who has no interest in him, whatsever is blocking both of our chances for happiness. Other races ladies and gentlemen other races please. I say this only because I have asked out Asians and have gotten rejected too. Freaking hurts and sucks.

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  8. Hi
    I am a woman and was born on a Caribbean Island nation by the name of St.Croix in the Virgin Islands. I am a Cruzan. So do I consider myself American. NO!! Though I do have citizenship, by morals no I am in no way American. I was taught and told Asian men have a lot going for them as do many other races of men. My mom alway made comments don't get you a dumb bummy dude. Get someone smart, educated, and kind. I look as thought I can easily pass for an African from Africa or African American woman from America. All my life since middle school up until now I look like I could be this person's cousin. I have also seen pictures, I maybe truly related to a lot of people.The sad fact to say is Asian men just like many other men of other cultures and women alike are chasing people who could not be bothered by dating them. I am not saying date exclusively your own race at all because if I did I would have kids now and having baby daddy issues. Im gladly a single college student working on a criminal justice degree in NY. No children but I have to say we all have to stop chasing this idea of ideal race and to be more western. Being western has it's advantages but their are many things that truly suck like all the processed or genetically modified food. Can I get a real orange for once in my life like back in the VI. NO!! Their all mutated and don't ship from there. The government is always experimenting some new drug or virus on it's own people. Hello if you have depression take a pill. Really? Then after a few months you get side effect then a new pill to cure your side effect that also has more side effects. Damn lovely really just damn lovely. Thirdly Zika a virus created by the American government is now apparently paralyzing adults who get bitten by the mosquitoes, who have the virus long term. Point is being western blows. Hell sometimes all I wanna do is go back but sadly where I am from their barely any jobs, and tourism has been on a decline despite how beautiful the island and the people are. People on St.Croix are mutts really not an insult but my grandad is from Spain, my grandma Native American Taino. Did a genetical exam and I am Irish, Italian, Greek, British, and African, Spanish. When your home gets taken over by 9 countries before your born you become mixed like many caribbean people. I look as mixed as everyone else on the island no matter how dark or light their skin is. We have Asians too but I am definitely sadly not Asian as far as the test goes. Hoping that link Native Americans from Serbia works out though would be cool. Whole ice bridge theory. Sorry to go off topic but back. I just want a nice guy who is kind, good hearted, loves me, loves our kids if we have a chance to create any, and loves what he does pursue his career. I am at the point nobody is being friendzoned. Any body can have a date whether it's coffee or dinner with me. No sex though gotta wait a year and a half to two years. Made the first official bf wait a year and a half not doing any sooner. I am sick of the spoiled men and women in America too. I am a bisexual and shall continue to be honest to you as I write this. It would be nice to go out on a date and not suddenly get stand up by a guy who is suddenly chasing down a girl with her legs open who he will see in 20 mins after she texts his phone. At the same time I am tired of being friendzoned by guys of other races looking for the same thing I am looking for. Yet the same guys who want the same thing I am looking for are so worried about dating only a certain race, or their own race they are missing the pot of gold in his class sitting next to him or at the library. Or maybe it's his lack of confidence, the fact he is chasing the white girl, who has no interest in him, whatsever is blocking both of our chances for happiness. Other races ladies and gentlemen other races please. I say this only because I have asked out Asians and have gotten rejected too. Freaking hurts and sucks.

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  9. White females always humiliating Asian man by saying about the genital. Let me as an Asian guy tell the truth why so rare Asian guy with white female. Simple. BECAUSE ASIAN MAN DONT ATTRACTED TO WHITE FEMALE. For me white female is like male.

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  10. Hey Winston as an Asian guy living in the u.s I can tell you that most white men don't look good either. In fact I find them often more ugly than Asian men. What I have found is that between a white guy considered good looking vs an Asian guy who is, I usually find the good looking Asian guy to be the more attractive of the two. Don't be so hard on yourself. Asian guys are better in the fact that we're not as obese or hairy as white men. We also age much better and our body odor doesn't stink as much and oh, white men are much more prone to premature balding than Asian men. So do count your/our blessings and don't be so hard on our race. The fact is that we've been maligned by negative stereotypes here in the u.s and that's why white women don't consider us as an attractive mate initially. There are tons of good looking Asian men in the world but why do you very rarely see them in tv? Also Australia is quite biased and racist towards Asian men and favor Asian women more. Asian men are also highly underrepresented in Australian media.

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  11. The dating scene is too hard for a White man to find a decent White woman. Every race wants a White woman. I date White women because they are my people. For other races, it's a FETISH and I am sick of how fetishism is making it harder for people like me to find something good and real!

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  12. Bad ass article, I love it. It's just the truth. I wonder when will you write on "Asian women white men" subject? I found that interesting that Asian women find white men more attractive then Asian or black men. I recently found an article(http://www.rebornmasculinity.com/is-getting-laid-in-china-easy/) about getting laid in China. Maybe it can help you get some insight on that subject I would love you to write about. Cheers.

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  13. I am not sure how to feel about this article. As an American, Caucasian woman, I have always been fascinated by the Asian culture. As a child, I had it in my head that I would grow up to marry an Asian apple farmer and we would have many children and a happy life on our farm. I do not know where that idea came from, but it stuck with me for many years.

    Growing up in the South, I was taught to be a strong female. However, I was also taught that dignity, grace, femininity, kindness, and a gentle touch were signs of strength.

    I did not end up marrying my Asian apple farmer. Instead, I fell completely in love with my Hispanic husband. He is 5'9, which does not meet the stereotypical strong male archetype. He does not play sports or drink beer or shoot guns. He spends his free time gaming on the computer. And when we can, we love to play Pokémon Go together. I stay home as a house wife and I raise our children. I am strong. I am capable. I am educated. But I am also feminine and enjoy the natural rush of my husband taking the lead in things. And if he had been born Asian, I would have loved him exactly the same....only I would have encouraged him to buy an apple orchard with me.

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  14. This author is one of the most self-hating Asian guys I've ever heard. He has seriously low self-esteem and is over-exaggerating his own delusions from experience. He projects his own beliefs based on rejection and insecurity.

    I'm Asian and I've dated 90% non-Asian women... hot ones, and lots of them. I'm typically the first Asian they date, and it goes well every time. I simply did not choose to pursue long-term relationships because I was in my early 20s and simply having fun. My wife is a knockout--she's a gorgeous white woman who most men would be intimidated to even talk to. Yet she chose me.

    Don't feed into this sad dope's theory of incompatibility and sweeping generalizations because he can't land a white woman. He probably can't have most women, regardless of race.

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  15. This author is one of the most self-hating Asian guys I've ever heard. He has seriously low self-esteem and is over-exaggerating his own delusions from experience. He projects his beliefs based on rejection and insecurity.

    I'm Asian and my dating history is 90% non-Asian women... beautiful ones, and lots of them. I'm typically the first Asian guy they date, and it goes very well. I simply did not choose to pursue long-term relationships because I was young and having fun. My wife is a knockout--she's gorgeous and would intimidate most men from even speaking to her. Yet she chose me. And yeah, she's white.

    Don't listen to this sad dope's theory of incompatibility and sweeping generalizations. He's upset because he can't land a white woman, but I'm pretty sure he struggles to have ANY woman.

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  16. Wow... that was painful/cringey to read...

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  17. Looks does matter even for guys. You wouldnt date a fat ugly btch yourself. Same goes for white women. I'm asian as well, from an asian country and had slept with about 20women in my lifetime. But upon arriving in A western country, it all gone to zer0 even with all the confidence and moves. Ive known some tall and musculine asian guys as well. Even nigs and indians more musculine than whites, but still finds it hard. So guys saying the contrary are just to arrogant to accept the facts. Its just luck if you nailed one. Or you might be the steroid junky type. But with average white women and average asian male in statistics, topic is quite accurate. Compared to asian countries, looks doesnt usually count.

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  18. Most asian guys dont have physical suave. Im not talking about the way you dress or the way you style your hair. It comes from genetics. This physical suave comes about from class. If your ancestors were high class aristocrats you will most likely have this. And good looks is usually a by product. Good looks naturally comes with the sophistication. Look at the prince and princesses of royal european societies, from romans, english, to the czar of russia.

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  19. The writer is a self loathing fool who succumbs to white culture. Asian men are great. We have been great for thousands of years. White men have worked hard to discredit us and deem us unattractive but that's their ignorant view. We are much more than what they perceive. If you believe their nonsensical illogical and false teachings then you're a fool an a disgrace to Asian men world wide. Who cares about white women and what they think? The world is racist and ugly. Just believe in yourself.

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  20. This gotta be the best post I've read on this topic. Covers everything and is probably the most accurate reflection of realities. I'm glad you found peace. A lot of asian (as can be seen from the above comments) refuse to accept the realities that they are undesirable. They are proud for that. But it's important to know that it's not our fault. Genetically and culturally we were born and raised this way.

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  21. The writer clearly illustrates low self esteem, confidence, and an inferiority complex which has shaped his world view, particularly with women. To those reading, please view this is as pure satire as this is nothing from reality as it is written from an individual with deep psychological issues.

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  22. The writer clearly illustrates low self esteem, confidence, and an inferiority complex which has shaped his world violence, particularly with women. To those reading, please view this is as pure satire as this is nothing from reality as it is written from an individual with deep psychological issues.

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  23. The women in Ukraine, Russia, Moldova, and some other parts of Europe are Caucasian. I think that most of them do not care about race. They just want to find good men whether they are black, white, Hispanic, Asian, mixed, Indian, etc.

    If you are a good man who is interested in dating or marrying a foreign woman, you have many options just like I do. I want to go back to Colombia and Dominican Republic. I also would like to go to Ukraine and the Philippines too.

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  24. I can relate to this Asian fella and I'm white. American women are now the ugliest in the world and more so in the southern states. And by ugly I mean fat, angry, spoiled and drama queens. Nearly every time I see European women in photos they are attractive, fit and smiling. Same for Africa to Asia. The U.S. is a great country but it needs a serious reboot socially.

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  25. No, I don't think white women are masculine butches, that's just your opinion. They're not too rough for me and there are girly girls in all races. I'm an Asian guy in the US and I like white girls better cause I'm attracted to their extroverted personalities, their cheerful demeanor, that they're curvier and taller than Asian girls on average and more athletic, and I just like Caucasian features. They may not age as well as Asian girls but I don't care because a good heart is the most important to me in the long run. If she has a good soul, she wouldn't care what you look like or that you're Asian (even if she's a gorgeous blonde cheerleader) and you know, maybe she thinks you're attractive even if you don't so beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Never been to Europe or Asia but as far as Asian girls I'm not looking for traditional at all (and absolutely no tiger moms either-period), childlike is not attractive to me in adults, and it's such a stereotype that they're super feminine. The only Asian girls I like are American, very westernized, and fits the traits above that I like in white girls so essentially a white girl in an Asian girl's body. And I am using examples of real women from my past so it's a specific personality type I like, that's most receptive to me too, I've noticed, regardless of race.

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  26. I have two friends who have white girlfriends : one from Canada and one from Germany. The two girls are all taller and muscular like you said than my friend. But they stocked together very quickly and I know you would say it was an exception. But could you tell me why rare Chinese girl marry guy from Eastern Europe and in Paris I have so many Asian girl-white guy ? The true answer is economy my friend. Not genital or the so called muscularity. If China is a developed country while the western is to the contrary , I guess the Asian guy would say I donnot want to have a white girl because she has body odor or her pussy is like that of a married woman(sorry to say that) . Finally let us look back to history , is the girl with big boob popular and beautiful in ancient China? No ! One hundred percent wrong. So is with your "mascular "answer. If you are a rich country you will export your aesthetics and finally you will become the model of beauty or attractiveness . That is all.

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