tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post2331409612021019602..comments2024-03-24T02:16:06.408-07:00Comments on Blog of The Happier Abroaders - Better Dating, Social Connection and Freedom Overseas: The Biggest Culture Shock: Americans in Movies vs. Real LifeDiannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09292402361729985882noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-7748142723050441532011-03-24T14:31:47.930-07:002011-03-24T14:31:47.930-07:00I see this junk all the time here in small town...I see this junk all the time here in small town's.<br />people are used to other trash people and then if you come in, and your nice, <br />and have manner;s or are knowlegable about thing's they cant handle it, <br />or run like rabbit's.<br />I see french people that are totally cool and mexican people that are really nice to be with and they care alot more about people than Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-2293231338558950142011-02-01T21:59:11.490-08:002011-02-01T21:59:11.490-08:00If I'm a tool that I believe in myself so be i...If I'm a tool that I believe in myself so be it. There women who hate me at my new job, you guys wanna know why? cause I'm to "cocky" *gasps* my confidence has been took as being to cocky. I could be like one of you guys and try to be accommodating and humble however I choose to hold my head high in confidence and get labeled 'cocky'<br /><br />I'm not saying Solohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233026694109849457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-78467507909276632012011-01-29T21:02:22.574-08:002011-01-29T21:02:22.574-08:00All I can do is laugh at all the comments I read. ...All I can do is laugh at all the comments I read. Granted that migrating to the U.S. definitley is a the biggest culture shock to one that expects what he sees on t.v. or in the movies, but I think Americans are the only ones that know t.v. is fake and things happen only in the movies. we know the difference between the real world and the big screen. And about the American women, well... I agree Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-42769723695503982952011-01-19T11:13:50.566-08:002011-01-19T11:13:50.566-08:00Solo, your "forum" is just a re-hash of ...Solo, your "forum" is just a re-hash of Oprah - giving the (US) women all the power, while the (US) men are wounded little puppy dogs - e.g. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=166917 "1. "Sooo, what are we?"<br />NEVER ask for exclusivity or fish for her feelings on the issue. If you have been dating for a good while (at least a dozen dates) and you still arentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-2233027928394019752011-01-10T13:29:20.306-08:002011-01-10T13:29:20.306-08:00Your cultural advisor is totally right about the b...Your cultural advisor is totally right about the biggest culture shock for immigrants in the US. I feel this way. Totally!<br /><br />"I think generally, the biggest culture shock that people experience in the US is not between their country and the US but between what they thought the US would be and what it actually is. Books and movies about America make the place appear very free and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-73154040900146857062011-01-04T12:53:42.686-08:002011-01-04T12:53:42.686-08:00"I have seen guys approach women at bookstore..."I have seen guys approach women at bookstores and grocery stores and they were brutally rejected by women"<br /><br />Here's what's worse ... it's when you actually get a Yankee gal from one of these "book readings" and she turns out to be a nut job. I've been there, done that, & got the t-shirt. Believe me, it's better to be rejected; at least your Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-17986566693401937402011-01-04T07:22:02.273-08:002011-01-04T07:22:02.273-08:00Solo, you are a tool.Solo, you are a tool.Gits Ferrarinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-25912270456009237472011-01-04T06:42:03.098-08:002011-01-04T06:42:03.098-08:00It's best to avoid American women like the pla...It's best to avoid American women like the plague! The best route to go is visit foreign countries and date women from those countries. <br /><br />America has one of the highest divorce rates in the world! Just say "no" to American women!<br /><br />As far as having "confidence" that's a good thing to have but I have seen guys who are very confident strike out withJamesbondnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-79798580049766327642011-01-01T20:00:21.141-08:002011-01-01T20:00:21.141-08:00"But even if you know classic dance, music, a..."But even if you know classic dance, music, and are versed in intelligent conversation and have a keen economic mind it won't matter at all, and that prized pussy, which is a bitch of one at best, will pass you up for a harvard student."<br /><br />Sounds like the Seven Sister college (plus Sarah Lawrence) types. Question here is why would anyone want them? Realize, someday, they&#Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-47713187927533993222011-01-01T17:38:39.926-08:002011-01-01T17:38:39.926-08:00Indeed. Know too many confident (really confident)...Indeed. Know too many confident (really confident) poor people who come from poor families? Know alot of stuck up rich pricks who can get anything they want and have full confidence most problems are solved with money? Yep. Anyone can sneak into a formal party and wear a suit and be confident. But even if you know classic dance, music, and are versed in intelligent conversation and have a keen Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-23014043511245415792011-01-01T17:15:49.845-08:002011-01-01T17:15:49.845-08:00Solo/Winston, I want to reverse the argument a bit...Solo/Winston, I want to reverse the argument a bit. <br /><br />I'd say, be confident, improve one's career potential, esp if you're in sales or consulting. Yes, change one's day-to-day focus to earning money ala trading stocks (or properties if you're a risk taker), develop hobbies like music/dance (not video or board games) and then, women (regardless of their respective Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-73443934164890904322010-12-22T17:56:53.453-08:002010-12-22T17:56:53.453-08:00Confidence isn't about what you have but beliv...Confidence isn't about what you have but belive in yourself and ablities, I think you need to look up the definition cause it's obvious you don't know it. YOu obviously are brainwashed into thinking that confidence comes from looks/money and height, this is delusional and what an insecure person i.e. unconfident person thinks. If it isn't for self-confidence in myself then I mightSolohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233026694109849457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-35379482837420055322010-12-09T23:13:41.109-08:002010-12-09T23:13:41.109-08:00It is a total myth that everyone hinges on confide...It is a total myth that everyone hinges on confidence. No intelligent person believes that, only the gullible do. <br /><br />The fact is, confidence is based on what you have in reality. It has to be based on something real. If I'm better than you at basketball then I have a right to feel confident that I will win. But if you are way better than me, then my confidence won't matter.<br />WWu777https://www.blogger.com/profile/11181566768690310415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-6563470000401352792010-12-09T09:26:03.736-08:002010-12-09T09:26:03.736-08:00Solo,
You don't know Russia. It's not Amer...Solo,<br />You don't know Russia. It's not America. The vibe there is completely free flowing. It's an anything goes atmosphere, not the rigid USA where people are paranoid. It's a totally different matrix, much more natural for me to be myself. Couldn't you tell? Your perception must suck.<br /><br />Come read the posts in this thread. We've totally debunked the myth of WWu777https://www.blogger.com/profile/04368933194799864846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-66106430021096724672010-11-23T08:49:12.117-08:002010-11-23T08:49:12.117-08:00Wu I saw your videos you came off "needy"...Wu I saw your videos you came off "needy" and "creepy" telling those chicks you loved them all the time when it's obvious they don't love you, then you spend $400 in shoes/coats on that one chick and God knows how much more money you have spend.<br /><br />Confidence and game does work I'm not a great looking guy, I'm average, I'm not rich by any means Solohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233026694109849457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-70400113502721638852010-11-23T06:51:01.684-08:002010-11-23T06:51:01.684-08:00Solo, that's pseudo BS confidence you're t...Solo, that's pseudo BS confidence you're talking about. It doesn't work. I am flirty and romantic. That's just me.<br /><br />Confidence and game don't work unless you have other assets to back it up. Women are not attracted to confidence. They are attracted to the traits that give one confidence like looks, money, etc. Let me see you on video. <br /><br />I do not say "IWWu777https://www.blogger.com/profile/11181566768690310415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-71271075952999709072010-11-22T09:45:45.314-08:002010-11-22T09:45:45.314-08:00You ever taught maybe you didn't get girl caus...You ever taught maybe you didn't get girl cause you don't have any game? I've seen your video dude and you come of as a total creeper, and whats up with you telling girls you love them every 5 minutes? women want a man with a backbone not a simpSolohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233026694109849457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6869029385656642973.post-85894913009495496042010-11-03T07:24:12.037-07:002010-11-03T07:24:12.037-07:00Btw, when I was in college, I went to this univers...Btw, when I was in college, I went to this university called Cal State Hayward in Hayward, CA. For the two years I was there, every day after school I'd spend about two hours trying to meet girls, with no results, simply cause I believed it was easy based on what the media, culture and TV shows portrayed. <br /><br />But in reality, everyone there minded their own business and expected me to WWu777https://www.blogger.com/profile/11181566768690310415noreply@blogger.com